♥ December 27, 2025 → Priorities, Priorities
I don't yet know when it is supposed to happen, but some time in 2026, I will be heading to Montréal for surgery. The good and welcome kind. Outside of normal fears about surgery, I am very excited fo...
♥ December 26, 2025 → Boxing Day Special
No, I don't mean any kind of sale. We just had a lovely visit with one of my oldest friends and his partner today. What began as meeting for coffee turned into two hours at coffee and a nice lupper so...
♥ December 25, 2025 → Achieving Comfort In New Traditions
For Kathleen and I, Christmas has long meant a nice and quiet time in our own home. I think the last time we travelled for the holiday was Christmas 2017, the first time I ever visited the East Coast....
♥ December 24, 2025 → It's Christmas Eve!
...and I think I might be getting into a sort of seasonal spirit? It's not something that comes easily to me. Whatever it might look like from the outside, in my experience, office life does not reall...
♥ December 23, 2025 → Preferences, Preferences
I think that when it comes down to it, I think that, even though you can often feel the spite attached to it, I might prefer being degendered to being repeatedly misgendered. This short and fleeting t...