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(personal blog made by a trans lady with a Crush 80)

The Waiting Game. Always Hard Mode.

In the same way that a watched pot never boils, an email you're looking for never does quite reach your inbox, your phone remains silent, and the postie has nothing but circulars for your mailbox.

What am I waiting for? To hear about surgery, of course!

While I'm still within the time I was advised it would take before hearing from the clinic (I was told 8-12 weeks), like most of us, I'm really anxious to get the process going!

I'm tempted to reach out - just to make sure that the package is okay - but am reluctant. I don't want to be a bother.

I know they have a process.

My request isn't any more important than anyone else's.

There isn't exactly a surplus of surgeons in Canada doing this.

It's not exactly a safe thing to visit the US right now. Perhaps some have stayed here for it?

I'm sure they're just busy...

...hopefully? ♥

January 8, 2026